In Korean culture, the way people address their family members and friends depends on age and gender. Unlike English, where "brother" and "sister" are used regardless of the speaker’s gender, Koreans use different terms depending on who is speaking.
The four most commonly used words for older siblings are:
- ํ (hyeong) – Used by a younger brother to refer to an older brother
- ๋๋ (nuna) – Used by a younger brother to refer to an older sister
- ์ค๋น (oppa) – Used by a younger sister to refer to an older brother
- ์ธ๋ (eonni) – Used by a younger sister to refer to an older sister
These words are not only used within families but also in friendship and social settings when addressing close, older friends.
1. ํ (hyeong) – What a Younger Brother Calls His Older Brother
Who uses it? → A younger male talking to his older brother
Example:
- "ํ, ๊ฐ์ด ์ถ๊ตฌํ๋ฌ ๊ฐ๋?"
→ "Hyung, do you want to go play soccer together?"
Additional Usage:
- In informal settings, ํ is also used between male friends if one is older.
- In Korean pop culture, male idols call their older male group members ํ.
2. ๋๋ (nuna) – What a Younger Brother Calls His Older Sister
Who uses it? → A younger male talking to his older sister
Example:
- "๋๋, ์ ๋
๋ญ ๋จน์๊น?"
→ "Nuna, what should we have for dinner?"
Additional Usage:
- A younger male can also call an older female friend "๋๋" if they are close.
- Some Korean male celebrities refer to their older female fans as "๋๋".
3. ์ค๋น (oppa) – What a Younger Sister Calls Her Older Brother
Who uses it? → A younger female talking to her older brother
Example:
- "์ค๋น , ํ๊ต ๋๋๊ณ ๋ฐ๋ฆฌ๋ฌ ์์ค ์ ์์ด?"
→ "Oppa, can you pick me up after school?"
Additional Usage:
- In romantic relationships, Korean women often call their boyfriends "์ค๋น " if they are older.
- "์ค๋น " is also used by younger female friends when speaking to an older male friend.
4. ์ธ๋ (eonni) – What a Younger Sister Calls Her Older Sister
Who uses it? → A younger female talking to her older sister
Example:
- "์ธ๋, ์ด ์ท ์ด๋?"
→ "Eonni, how does this outfit look?"
Additional Usage:
- A younger female can call an older female friend "์ธ๋" in friendly situations.
- In Korean entertainment, female idols refer to older female members as "์ธ๋".
5. Summary: Who Uses Which Word?
Speaker | Talking to Older Brother | Talking to Older Sister |
Younger Brother | ํ (hyoung) | ๋๋ (nuna) |
Younger Sister | ์ค๋น (oppa) | ์ธ๋ (eonni) |
6. Cultural Significance
- Respect & Hierarchy
- Korean culture places a strong emphasis on respecting older individuals.
- Using ํ, ๋๋, ์ค๋น , ์ธ๋ is a way to show respect and closeness.
- Not Just for Family
- These words are also used in friendships and relationships, especially in informal or affectionate settings.
- Romantic Connotation of "์ค๋น "
- While "์ค๋น " literally means "older brother," it is commonly used by women to address their older boyfriends, making it a famous Korean term in K-dramas.
7. What About "๋์" (dongsaeng)?
If you are talking about a younger sibling, Koreans use ๋์ (dongsaeng) for both genders.
- ๋จ๋์ (namdongsaeng) → Younger brother
- ์ฌ๋์ (yeodongsaeng) → Younger sister
However, unlike ํ, ๋๋, ์ค๋น , ์ธ๋, younger siblings do not use "๋์" when speaking directly to their older siblings.
Final Thoughts
Korean family and friendship terms are deeply connected to age and social hierarchy. Learning when and how to use ํ, ๋๋, ์ค๋น , ์ธ๋ will help you sound more natural in conversations. Whether in a family setting, among friends, or even in romantic relationships, these words play a key role in Korean social interactions.
If you're learning Korean, try practicing by using the correct term when speaking with Korean friends. It will help you sound more fluent and respectful in everyday conversations.