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[Learn][Korean] How to Say "Sorry" in Korean: ๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•ด, ๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค, ์ฃ„์†กํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค, ์ฃ„์†กํ•ด์š”

5hr1rnp 2025. 2. 10. 11:14
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Apologizing is an important part of any language, and in Korean, there are several ways to say "sorry" depending on the level of formality and the situation. Understanding the differences between ๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•ด, ๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค, ์ฃ„์†กํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค, and ์ฃ„์†กํ•ด์š” will help you use the right expression in different contexts.


1. ์ฃ„์†กํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค (joesonghamnida) – The Most Formal "Sorry"


โœ… Politeness Level: Very formal (์กด๋Œ“๋ง)
โœ… When to Use: In professional settings, with elders, or when making a serious apology
โœ… Literal Meaning: "I feel guilty."

์ฃ„์†กํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค is the most polite way to say "I'm sorry." It is commonly used in workplaces, customer service situations, or when you need to apologize to someone you respect.

Examples:

  • ์‹ค์ˆ˜ํ•ด์„œ ์ฃ„์†กํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
    (I’m sorry for my mistake.)
  • ๋Šฆ์–ด์„œ ์ฃ„์†กํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
    (I’m sorry for being late.)

If you are unsure which form of "sorry" to use, ์ฃ„์†กํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค is the safest choice in formal situations.


2. ์ฃ„์†กํ•ด์š” (joesonghaeyo) – Polite but Less Formal


โœ… Politeness Level: Polite (์กด๋Œ“๋ง) but softer than ์ฃ„์†กํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
โœ… When to Use: With acquaintances, colleagues, or in polite but casual situations
โœ… Literal Meaning: "I feel guilty."

์ฃ„์†กํ•ด์š” is slightly less formal than ์ฃ„์†กํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค but still respectful. It is suitable when speaking to people who are older than you but in a less strict environment.

Examples:

  • ์‹ค์ˆ˜ํ–ˆ์–ด์š”. ์ฃ„์†กํ•ด์š”.
    (I made a mistake. I’m sorry.)
  • ๊ฐ‘์ž๊ธฐ ๋ชป ๊ฐ€๊ฒŒ ๋ผ์„œ ์ฃ„์†กํ•ด์š”.
    (I’m sorry I can’t go suddenly.)

Although grammatically correct, ์ฃ„์†กํ•ด์š” is less commonly used than ์ฃ„์†กํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. Most people stick to ์ฃ„์†กํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค in polite speech.


3. ๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค (mianhamnida) – Formal but Softer Than ์ฃ„์†กํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค


โœ… Politeness Level: Formal (์กด๋Œ“๋ง)
โœ… When to Use: In polite situations, but less serious than ์ฃ„์†กํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
โœ… Literal Meaning: "I feel sorry."

๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค is another polite way to say "I'm sorry," but it is considered slightly less serious than ์ฃ„์†กํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. It is often used in work settings, but if the situation is very serious, ์ฃ„์†กํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค is preferred.

Examples:

  • ๋ฐฉํ•ดํ•ด์„œ ๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
    (I’m sorry for disturbing you.)
  • ์ฐฉ๊ฐํ•ด์„œ ๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
    (I’m sorry for the misunderstanding.)

If you want to be very polite but not overly formal, ๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค is a good option.


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4. ๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•ด์š” (mianhaeyo) – Polite Yet Friendly


โœ… Politeness Level: Polite (์กด๋Œ“๋ง) but softer than ๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค
โœ… When to Use: With acquaintances, friends, or colleagues in a warm but respectful way
โœ… Literal Meaning: "I feel sorry."

๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•ด์š” is a polite but friendly way to say "sorry." It is appropriate for situations where you want to be respectful but also casual.

Examples:

  • ๋Šฆ์–ด์„œ ๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•ด์š”!
    (I’m sorry for being late!)
  • ๊นœ๋นก ์žŠ์—ˆ์–ด์š”. ๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•ด์š”!
    (I forgot! I’m sorry!)

This form is often used between friends who still maintain some level of politeness.


5. ๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•ด (mianhae) – The Casual "Sorry"


โœ… Politeness Level: Informal (๋ฐ˜๋ง)
โœ… When to Use: With close friends, younger people, or in very casual settings
โœ… Literal Meaning: "I feel sorry."

๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•ด is the casual way to say "sorry" and is commonly used among friends, siblings, or people of the same age. Since it’s ๋ฐ˜๋ง (informal speech), avoid using it with elders or in professional settings.

Examples:

  • ๋Šฆ์–ด์„œ ๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•ด!
    (Sorry for being late!)
  • ๋ชฐ๋ž์–ด, ๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•ด.
    (I didn’t know, sorry.)

Using ๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•ด with someone who expects politeness might sound rude, so use it carefully.


6. ์ฃ„์†กํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค vs. ๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค – What’s the Difference?


 

Expression Politeness Level Who to Use It With? Seriousness
์ฃ„์†กํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค Very formal Elders, teachers, strangers, business settings More serious
์ฃ„์†กํ•ด์š” Polite Acquaintances, polite conversations Less serious
๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค Formal but softer Elders, formal settings Medium seriousness
๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•ด์š” Casual polite Friends, colleagues, polite but warm situations Less serious
๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•ด Informal Close friends, younger people Least serious

If you are in doubt, ์ฃ„์†กํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค is the safest and most respectful choice!


7. Other Ways to Express an Apology in Korean


โœ” ์ •๋ง ์ฃ„์†กํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. → "I’m truly sorry." (Very formal)
โœ” ์ง„์‹ฌ์œผ๋กœ ๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•ด์š”. → "I’m sincerely sorry." (Polite)
โœ” ์šฉ์„œํ•ด ์ฃผ์„ธ์š”. → "Please forgive me." (Formal)
โœ” ์ž˜๋ชปํ–ˆ์–ด์š”. → "I was wrong." (Polite)
โœ” ๋ฏธ์•ˆ, ๋‚ด ์ž˜๋ชป์ด์•ผ. → "Sorry, my bad." (Casual)


8. Final Thoughts


Now you know how to say "sorry" in Korean depending on the situation and the level of formality.

  • Use ์ฃ„์†กํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค in professional and formal settings.
  • Use ๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค in polite situations but with less seriousness.
  • Use ๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•ด์š” in friendly yet respectful conversations.
  • Use ๋ฏธ์•ˆํ•ด only with close friends.

By choosing the right form, you’ll sound more natural and respectful when apologizing in Korean!

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